“Union brings strength; disunion, weakness. United with one another, working together in harmony for the salvation of men, we shall indeed be ‘laborers together with God.’ Those who refuse to work in harmony greatly dishonor God. The enemy of souls delights to see them working at cross purposes with one another. Such ones need to cultivate brotherly love and tenderness of heart. If they could draw aside the curtain veiling the future and see the result of their disunion they would be surely led to repent. The world is looking with gratification at the disunion amongst Christians. Infidelity is well pleased. God calls for a change among His people. Union with Christ and with one another is our only safety in these last days. Let us not make it possible for Satan to point to our church members, saying: ‘Behold how these people, standing under the banner of Christ, hate one another. We have nothing to fear from them while they spend more strength fighting one another than in warfare with my forces.’ ” (Testimonies For The Church, Vol. 8, p. 240, by Ellen White)
If there seems to be fighting and bickering in the church where you are, don’t join in the disunity. Pray for the church and keep showing the love and kindness of Jesus to the people there. If they are doing things that are not in accordance with the Holy Word, don’t give into that either. Let the Holy Spirit use you to lead them to the Truth that is written in His Word. Who knows, you may be a Lightbearer in the house of the Good King (His church) and make a difference for eternity.